Mar
12

The Forgotten Baby Syndrome

The ‘Forgotten baby syndrome’ is becoming a serious worry as mothers are busy juggling family, home and work! ?

It seems unthinkable – accidentally leaving your baby for hours, but lots of busy parents do it with devastating consequences

Karen, a professional devoted mum goes on trial today for the murder of her baby son who she left alone in a hot car for over 7 hours! He died of heatstroke.

‘Karen drove a short distance to work, planning to drop her son off at nursery on the way. At around 4pm, she returned home. There, she received a panicked phone call from her husband. He was at the nursery to pick Ryan up. But Ryan wasn’t there.

In that split second, Karen’s world imploded. She realised she’d done something unimaginably awful. She sprinted to her car in the driveway and found her beloved baby, still strapped into his seat in the back. Karen, described by all who know her as a wonderful and caring mother, had forgotten to drop her son off at nursery. He’d been left in a searingly hot car for more than seven hours.

Despite frantic attempts to resuscitate him, Ryan died from heatstroke’.

Today, Karen goes on trial in America accused of murder and child neglect. If convicted, she could face a maximum prison sentence of 40 years.

Her husband, who is standing by her — as are their friends and extended family — says the murder charge is outrageous. He says it was a tragic accident, an inexplicable, inexcusable mistake — but not a crime. Furthermore, Karen is in a living hell. Accidentally killing your own baby is a lifelong sentence far greater than any a court could ever deliver.

What do you think ? Do you have any sympathy?

Have you ever forgotton your baby somewhere because you have just had too many things on your mind?

Mar
08

How things have changed! ( parenting trends compared between 70′s and now.)

My mum often says to me ‘that never happened in my day’ or ‘ I don’t know how you do it life was never so complicated when you were children’.

Things definitely have changed over the decades – parenting can be tough and busy. Here are some statistics comparing the social trends of the 70’s to today.

See if you can guess the trends before peaking below!

  1. Just fewer than 50% of mums in the 70’s drank alcohol regularly while pregnant.  What % of mums in the 21st century drink alcohol?
  2. Most women would give up work 2 months before their due date. The luxury of staying in hospital for a week or more in the 70’s after giving birth was enjoyed by 37% of mums. Nowadays mothers rarely stay overnight – What % stay for one day after giving birth.
  3. Breast is always best – 45% of mums breastfed for 6+ months in the 70’s, 67% in the 90’s. What happened by 2010?
  4. We are told not to smack our children – 77% of parents did openly in the 70’s. It has fallen dramatically but do we still smack our kids at times?
  5. Dads are much more involved in their children’s upbringing nowadays but on the 70’s – only 58% of Dads were present at the birth of their children – only 60% ever changed a nappy -  62% bathed their baby – 70% ever put them to bed.   What happens today?

A1   Between 2000-2010 this had dramatically fallen to just 4%. Well done you Mums-to-be.

A2   14% of new mums work the week before they give birth, 26% go home the same day after giving birth.

A3   It fell only slightly to 56% breastfeeding for six month or more.

A4   Yes 36% still believe there are times when smacking is the only way to instill discipline. This trend needs your comments!

A5   Nearly all Dads are present at the birth of their children nowadays – 98%

A6   94% of Dads are at the birth – 98% change nappies regularly – 89% bath their baby – 91% put their babies to bed. Good old Dad!

Tell us your thoughts?

According to Practical Parenting & Pregnancy: “It’s fascinating to see how pregnancy, birth and bringing up children have reflected the social changes in our society and changing health information. It’s incredibly encouraging to see mums-to-be cutting back on their pregnancy drinking and to see how much more involved fathers are. But clearly more work needs to be done to support mums with breastfeeding.”

Mar
07

Pregnant Stacey Solomon caught smoking

Seven months pregnant Stacey Solomon was caught smoking four cigarettes in two hours as she stood in an alley way clutching her baby bump.

‘My Doctor said I could’ was her only comment !

The 22-year-old told The People newspaper: I know it doesn’t look good but I only have a few cigs a day.’

We don’t usually link to outside sites but this is important click here

Smoking during pregnancy causes all sorts of difficulties :

A baby in the womb gets everything from its mother. Nutrients and oxygen come via the placenta and umbilical cord. Smoking not only exposes the foetus to toxins in tobacco smoke, but it also damages placental function.

When a person smokes, some of the oxygen in their blood is replaced by carbon monoxide. If a pregnant woman smokes, her blood and therefore her child’s blood will contain less oxygen than normal. This can cause the foetal heart rate to rise as baby struggles to get enough oxygen.

Babies of smokers

1.will be born prematurely

2. will be less than average in weight

3. will have smaller organs

4. poorer lung function.

5. are twice as likely to die from cot death.

6. are ill more frequently

7. will be prone to middle ear and asthmatic bronchitis

8. are more likely to become smokers themselves in later years.

Tell us what you think about Stacey or any pregnant mum smoking during her pregnancy?

 

 

Mar
04

These cases are often traumatic with lifelong consequences.

     We recently came back from a family skiing holiday – the children always go to ski school where they have to wear helmets; my husband also wore a helmet this year – he said there had been so much publicity around injuries to skiers in the past few years that he thought it was wise that one of us was sensible. So you’ve guess it – I did not wear a helmet – I love the fact that the air blows through my hair. Stupid or what ?

Lisa Turan of the Children Brain Injury Trust say;  “It still baffles me why so many youngsters resist wearing a helmet while cycling or skiing: they clearly don’t realise how a split-second impact could result in a life-changing brain injury that could render them incapacitated, disabled or worse,”

She is absolutely right – why take the risk. I will definitely wear one next time we go – once you have the responsibility of children you have to be safe and not sorry !

We urge you all to wear helmets while cycling and skiing.

Despite many youngsters shunning cycle helmets, 69% of the boys and girls aged 11-16 when asked in a recent survey said they would welcome a law enforcing under-16s to wear a cycle helmet.

Parents on bikes and skis need to lead by example – and their children would welcome them taking a more pro-active stance on helmet wear.

The survey showed that 56% of these youngsters’ parents wore a cycle helmet but only 38% wore a skiing helmet – leaving 62% of parents skiing without protective headgear.  Children would definitely like to see their parents wear a ski helmet.

Christine Tallon, a solicitor  who specialises in brain injury claims says  “In our specialist field of work we see the devastating effects of brain injuries among adults and children who come off their bikes,” she says.  “These cases are often traumatic with lifelong consequences,”

Christine strongly favours wearing a ski helmet having had two thankfully minor accidents herself in recent years.  “I narrowly avoided a head injury but thankfully I was wearing a helmet whilst skiing: I think they should be made compulsory for adults and children on the slopes,” she says.  “It is very worrying when one hears about the number of head injuries sustained whilst skiing and cycling and which often occur at high speed. The severity of some of these would be potentially far less and in many cases could be avoided entirely if people were to wear helmets.”

 

Mar
01

Mum and Baby doing well!

A gorilla who was taken off the Pill on Valentine’s Day last year has given birth to a baby.

Mother Asili – one of the six female Western Lowland gorillas at Chessington World of Adventures Resort in Surrey – gave birth to the youngster last week  (Thursday 23rd February), and both mother and baby appear to be doing well.

Some of the 27,000+ fans of the Chessington Facebook page were able to witness the birth online and in real time, thanks to special webcams set up in the gorilla enclosure to stream live footage 24 hours a day. The birth took just 30 minutes, and saw mother Asili naturally deliver her baby, who has not yet been named, at 2.14pm.  The sex of the baby may not be known for some time.

Damisi, the father, is turning out to be something of a stud in the gorilla enclosure. He was introduced as a new breeding male in 2008, and successfully bred with Buu. Now only three years after the birth of Mbula, he has fathered a second baby following a romance with Asili.

The Western Lowland gorilla is a vulnerable species and only mates periodically. Females tend to produce only one baby every five years on average.

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