Feb
11

Aren’t the government’s plans to offer loans to help with childcare costs totally rubbish?

hildcare costs are severely denting the budget of millions of parents, but I don’t find the latest government proposals helpful. In fact, I find the plans to offer parents of pre-school children loans of up to £10,000 to pay for childcare absolutely outrageous. These loans would be paid for at an interest rate of 3 per cent above inflation, taken straight from the parent’s taxable income. If the loan starts at £10,000 in 2012, what will it look like in 2, or even 10 years time when you take into account interest payments and inflation? These loans would put already-struggling parents into even more debt

Polling for the Social Market Foundation, which has put forward the proposals, shows 55 per cent of parents say childcare is too expensive (by the way ONLY 55%, that surprises me when a full-time place at nursery in a big city would set you back around £1000 a month PER CHILD…)

The solution is not to offer a loan but to subsidise childcare, or create nursery places at an earlier age. Yes it would cost a fair bit of money – especially at a time when the government is drastically implementing budget cuts.

But think about the millions of women who have to give up work to look after their children because they cannot afford childcare. Millions of clever, able, hard-working women who cannot contribute as much to the economy and have to stay at home because it’s makes no sense to work when all their salary is used up for childcare. High childcare costs are discriminatory to women.

I know many people think it is a ‘lifestyle choice’ to have children and therefore associated costs have to be paid by parents but if you follow that reasoning, if some of us stopped reproducing on behalf of others, the world would be, well, empty.

What do you think?

 

Feb
11

Tales of a ‘culture starved’ generation: should school be the only place to learn about art?

Do you rely on school to teach your offspring about Picasso, Monet or Van Gogh? Have you ever taken them to the museum, the cinema, or the theatre? If not, then they could be amongst the millions of a new ‘culture starved’ generation of British children who have never been to an art gallery, theatre or stage show.

A according to new research carried out among 2,000 parents of five to12 year-olds throughout the UK, four in 10 children have never seen the inside of an art gallery, while 17 per cent haven’t visited a museum with their parents.

The research, which was commissioned by Visit Birmingham, also revealed that a quarter of children haven’t been to the theatre, while six in 10 have never heard or been to a classical music concert.

One in 10 kids hasn’t even left their home town to visit other sites in the UK.

And half of parents admit they make little effort to educate their children on culture or history, relying on schools to do so.

Instead, a third say they rely on schools to take full responsibility for sight-seeing trips and educational visits to local attractions

When questioned on why they make no effort to make their children more ‘cultured’ and knowledgeable about past history, a fifth of parents claim their offspring simply wouldn’t be interested.

A further 26 per cent claim they can’t afford to visit attractions, while 28 per cent don’t have the time to go trekking up and down the country.

A fifth of parents refer again to the fact that the children learn everything they need to know about culture and history at school. Well, that’s wishful thinking I’d say….

Tell us what you think?

 

Feb
01

Toddler development classes…is there any point? Dr Lin Day says yes.

I have to confess I have always wondered whether going to playgroups or ‘baby gyms’ made any sense – other than give exhausted and socially isolated mums an opportunity to commiserate with others.

According to Dr Lin Day, the founder of Baby Sensory, the baby development classes, they do. This is why, on top of the very successful baby classes, the company is also running Toddler Sense programme.

“Toddlers need to be with other children in order to learn important social skills such as negotiation, turn-taking and cooperation, which form the foundations for cooperative play and relationship building. Even though toddlers do not cooperate, share or make friends until their fourth year, if they have been given plenty of opportunities to play with other children, they will be at an advantage when they go to toddler group or preschool,” the company says.

I can only agree with that. How is a child who has spent the first four years of his life just with his parents going to cope at school? Learning key diplomacy skills from a young age can only be good to mingle with other equally “un-cooperative” creatures at school.

“Toddlers also need structure and a regular routine. Both give toddlers a sense of organisation, stability, comfort and personal control. In a Toddler Sense class, exercise and group play form an important part of the structure and daily routine. The first part of the session involves free-flow adventure play, which offers endless opportunities for exploration, problem-solving and imaginative thinking. Toddlers are encouraged to crawl through tunnels, bounce, climb or clamber over the equipment. They decide what interests them the most and how they will explore the equipment. Adventurers (18 – 36 months) put the equipment away after use, which builds self-esteem and confidence and keeps them busy and stimulated”.

So basically they run till they are exhausted – and, hopefully, that means they’ll sleep better at night – and then TIDY UP!!! Nice one…

“Free-flow play in the adventure area is followed by structured group activities which build the skills that toddlers need for healthy brain development. Activities may include hide-and-seek, music and movement, action songs, rhymes, dance, clapping and patting games, drawing and colouring, puppet shows, parachute activities, football, treasure hunts and interaction with soft toys.”

The sessions aim at being interactive: “Throughout the session, parents join in with the fun and offer toddlers support, praise and encouragement.”

And what about having a cup of tea instead?

Because: “spending time with them raises their self-esteem and emotional security and equips them to handle moments of frustration and anger”.

Well, ok, forget the cup of tea then, if Dr Lin Day says so….

For more information about sensory classes, click here

And for ideas about entertaining young children and turn them into happy, confident and sociable individuals, visit childalert’s website:

Feb
22

A working mother’s life in pictures !

a mother’s life in pictures  click here to see all

It was just ‘another day for mum in the office’  and for little Victoria Ronzulli.

For me and countless European newspapers these images were the pictures of the week (well, last week anyway…). Toddler, Victoria,  joined her mum, Licia Ronzulli, an Italian euro MP in a voting session at the European Parliament in Strasbourg.

Good on you Licia! Some humanity at last amongst all the grey suits…

Mrs Ronzulli has struck before. Back in September 2010, when Victoria was only 6 weeks old, she was in a sling whilst her mum cast her vote at the European Parliament…

What about yourself, have you ever thought about bringing baby to work?

 

Feb
21

Do you argue over your children’s homework?

If not, you’re lucky. Almost a third of parents have admitted helping their children with homework has led to arguments in the family, according to a survey by tuition provider Explore Learning. The number one topic for discord? Maths, apparently, with almost 50% of parents finding the subject difficult compared to the 11% of parents that find English hard to grasp.

Carey Ann Dodah, Head of Curriculum Development at Explore Learning, believes arguments start due to the frustration of parents and their lack of understanding of their children’s homework. “Learning styles have changed over the years and for some parents the way homework is presented can be deemed confusing. Parents frequently get the complaint ‘but that’s not the way we do it at school’ when they try to help their child with their work,” she says.

Interestingly, and rather disappointingly for advocates of gender equality, Explore Learning’s survey indicates that 52% of mums and 32% of dads struggle in understanding maths. Mind you, I suspect it is the other way round with English…

Though private tuition can obviously prove useful to stop homework turning into a constant battle with your kids, 15% of parents have found another solution altogether: they never or rarely help with homework at all….

I’ll let you ponder the last option….

Tell us about your family, do you argue over homework too?

Get some tips here

Feb
20

Pancake day (for the cheats) Tuesday February 21st

           Long are the days where I would waste precious hours on Pancake Day slaving in the kitchen to prepare two dozen pancakes that would be eaten in…2 minutes. Rather frustrating isn’t it? So this year, for the first time, I will use ready-made ones. Not even the ones that come out of a plastic bottle and take 5 mins to cook. No, I’ll use frozen ones that take 1 minute to be ready. Rather  lazy and certainly not the ‘real thing’ but will save me lots of time I can use to eat pancakes myself instead of trying to keep up with requests for ‘another one’ without actually eating any. Nah!

Aunt Bessie makes such pancakes. They send us some samples and recipes, including the rather interesting one below for “Barbequed pancakes”. Well, why not…

So enjoy and bon appétit!

SWEET PANCAKES WITH BERRY JAM

Preparation time : 10 minutes

1 pkt Aunt Bessie’s Traditional Pancakes

8 tbsp strawberry or raspberry jam

50g/2oz butter melted

icing sugar

To serve :

fresh berries

vanilla ice-cream

Thaw the pancakes in the refrigerator. Spread each pancakes with a tablespoon of jam of your choice, then fold the pancakes in half.

These pancakes can be set aside covered with cling film until needed. Brush the pancakes lightly on each side with melted butter and dust with icing sugar.

Place on a pre-heated barbecue. Cook for about 1 minute (this will depend on the heat of the barbecue), flip each over and cook for a further 30 seconds. Transfer to serving plates serve with some extra fresh fruits and a scoop of vanilla ice-cream.

These pancakes can also be cooked on a hot griddle pan, be careful though, the jam may ooze out and burn in the pan if cooking a batch.

CRISPY CHOCOLATE PANCAKES

Preparation time: 10 minutes

A fabulous combination of chocolate and nuts, wrapped in crisp pancakes – guaranteed to melt anyone’s heart!

1 pkt Aunt Bessie’s Traditional Pancakes

11 tbsp chocolate spread such as Nutella

25g/1oz butter, melted

2 tbsp golden caster sugar

90ml/3 fl oz double cream

50g/2oz hazelnuts, toasted and chopped (optional)

Re-heat the pancakes as directed. Spread each with a tablespoon of the chocolate spread then, fold each pancake in half then in half again to create triangle shape. Arrange them in a buttered baking dish. Brush with the butter and scatter over the sugar

Heat the remaining chocolate spread with the cream in a small saucepan, stir until smooth, lower the heat and simmer until slightly thickened.

Place the baking dish under a hot grill and cook for 3-4 minutes until the edges of the pancakes are crispy. Serve with the sauce and hazelnuts scattered over, if wished.

STRAWBERRIES AND CREAM PANCAKES

Preparation time : 10 minutes

The ultimate summer combination, but with a twist! Sweet succulent strawberries, wrapped in piping hot pancakes.

1 pkt Aunt Bessie’s Traditional Pancakes

450g punnet strawberries

1 tbsp caster sugar

90ml/3 fl oz sweet sherry or orange juice

300ml/½ pint whipping cream

2 tbsp icing sugar

Wash, hull and slice the strawberries, put into a dish, add the caster sugar then pour over the sherry or orange juice, allow to stand a few minutes to develop the flavour and allow the juices to run.

Meanwhile, whip the cream with the icing sugar and warm the pancakes as directed on the packet.

To serve, place a dollop of cream in the middle of each pancakes, pile over the strawberries then gently fold over in half, serve at once.

BANANAS AND CREAM

Preparation time ; 10 minutes

A classic combination of childhood favourites, mixed with gooey toffee sauce – comfort food at its best!

1 pkt Aunt Bessie’s Traditional Pancakes

4 ripe bananas

2 tbsp Demerara sugar

300ml / ½ pt double cream

Toffee sauce

Peel the bananas and put into a bowl with the sugar, mash with a fork.

Whip the cream until peaking and fold into the bananas.

Warm the pancakes and spoon on the bananas and cream then roll up. Place on serving plates and drizzle over the toffee sauce.

For more ideas, check www.auntbessies.co.uk.

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